Your Biggest Weapon & Key To Success In Life | Hindi Motivation | Neeraj Arora

Hi Guys! In this blog, we are going to talk about something which is very important for all of you.

Doesn't matter how intelligent you are, how many degrees you have. You are a CA, MBA from an IIM or you have done any great thing in life but if you don't have this then you are going to be in trouble.

What is this? It's a very simple thing and if you have this then you can achieve anything in life.

It's Focus, your distraction-free concentration, your ability to cut yourself off from the entire world.

I'm not saying that build a small room and start living in that, but I'm saying that when you are working, you are doing something which requires detailed working, at that time if you are able to cut yourself off from the rest of the world then you can do it in a much better way and your output will also be high.

A highly distracted and brilliant person can't create such an output, he can't reach excellence, but on the other hand, a person who is average in studies but has gotten control over his focus then he can take out such an output which is better, irrespective of the fact that what was his marks and what he has done.

Let me tell you a thing, if you don't learn how to focus then intellectually you will start degrading, your skills will start degrading and you will lead a highly unsatisfied and below-average life.

You might think, sir what are you even saying. But I'm being brutally honest and this is the fact.

If you can't sit with the focus for the work which you really want to do and really matters to you and because of this even your personal life is getting affected. Because what happens is that you are sitting with your family members, your friends but you are occupied somewhere else, your focus is somewhere else. 

Ultimately everything is dependent upon apps, people who are making apps and phones will continue to make it and you can't shut down the internet.

There are so many things in an app that you just can't control, you just learn how to control yourself and then see how this thing will take you forward.

If you can't focus then that leads to below-average quality of work which makes you feel even more dissatisfied and then your mind feels tensed and you feel that where to go now. 

And then you again take shelter in social media. This is the vicious circle, first of all because of this social media, these networking tools you couldn't concentrate and which lead to mediocre quality of output and again you went there to hide, to take shelter behind social media.

Please!! The only way to break this vicious circle is to restrict yourself, restrict your presence, restrict your communication, restrict your networking. All these things are just going to drive you crazy.

Believe me!! In the coming times, I can give you 100% assurance that there will be social media detox centres to help you detach from your social media addiction.

People will beg to save them, I can't concentrate, I can't work which is leading me to produce a low level of output. It's affecting my work, my career, my life, my personal and professional life, basically everything in my life is suffering.

If you really want to save yourself from this then slowly increase your willpower.

Take out time, at that time you won't be doing any communication and won't be using any social media.

Slowly start increasing that time and slowly in itself your motivation level will start increasing and your willpower will keep on increasing.

Let me tell you one more thing that what's going to help you do this is Meditation, whether you agree or not.

Your meditation, physical workout, journaling, all these things are going to help you out to increase your focus.

As soon as your focus starts increasing, your concentration starts increasing then if you are a student then your studies, if you are a professional then your work will slowly start getting more output from you, you will start getting more satisfaction

Remember your childhood when whatever we used to love doing then we used to just leave everything else and start doing that.

When you start enjoying your work to that level, you will start focusing on that and leave everything aside.

Slowly your level of satisfaction and the shine in that work will start elevating and keep on elevating and these things won't happen at once, it will take time. If you just promise yourself now that I'll just quit social media and not use it anymore then that's not going to happen.

Just reduce it, initially just reduce it and take it to a level where we will further take it towards elimination.

Right!! I hope my message is crystal clear and I hope you definitely work towards this in your life because this thing is going to help you lead a satisfied life.

I'm not saying that because of this you will accumulate a lot of wealth and you will become Rakesh Jhunjhunwala or Warren Buffet.

But you will lead a satisfied life, personally and professionally, if you are able to control your focus, your concentration a little bit.

With this note guys thank you so much, stay connected stay ahead.

Seekhte rahe kyunki seekhna shuru toh jeetna shuru!